You don't have to say it first
Find out if it's mutual.
Mutualish is a private way to find out whether someone you're interested in feels the same.
Add them privately. If they add you too, you both find out. If not, nobody does.
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Who's on your mind?
Enter your email and theirs. We'll verify you before anything is sent.
Private by design
Your interest stays private unless it is mutual.
Your choices stay private
The people you add are never told that it was specifically you.
No profiles or browsing
There are no public profiles, searchable interest lists, or feeds showing who likes whom.
Only mutuals are revealed
If you both independently add each other, Mutualish privately reveals the match to both of you.
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How Mutualish works
What is Mutualish?
Mutualish is a private way to find out whether someone you're interested in feels the same. You privately add their email address, and a match is revealed only if they independently add you too.
Will someone know if I add them?
They may receive a discreet invitation to Mutualish, but it will not identify you. Your identity is revealed only if the interest becomes mutual.
What happens if the interest is not mutual?
Nothing is revealed. They are not told that you added them, and your private choice remains private.
Is Mutualish anonymous?
Mutualish is private, not an anonymous posting service. Users verify their email addresses, and there are no public profiles, searchable lists, or feeds.
Who can use Mutualish?
Mutualish is intended only for adults who are 18 or older.